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I have successfully completed my first challenge – meditating every day – and here is what I have learned.
First, 30 minutes is too long for me, personally, to meditate during one sitting. After 25 minutes, I began to get physically uncomfortable and extremely restless. However, I need at least 10 minutes, more often 15 minutes, for my brain to settle down. It seems that as soon as I sit down to meditate, random thoughts and to-do lists immediately start zinging around my brain. Those first 10-15 minutes are necessary for the random thoughts to wear themselves out and for my brain to relax. After that I am able to meditate at a high level for about 10 minutes before I literally begin to squirm.
Second, I have learned that I cannot meditate late at night or when I am tired. I have no focus and tend to end up dozing off … or just wishing it were over. The best times for me to meditate seem to be right after lunch or at the end of the work day. However, I also like to exercise at the end of the work day, and if I don’t go right after work, I will lose motivation or be out running in the dark. But by the time I complete my run, cool down, and shower, I tend to be starving and don’t want to meditate. So the conundrum is: when is the best time for me to mediate so that I can make it a regular part of my day?
Well, I may have tentatively found an answer to that. I noticed that meditating after my run seems to require less time for my brain to settle down – in fact it cuts the time in half. So I think I will try habit-stacking meditation onto my exercise. Over the next two weeks, I will meditate afterward every time I go for a run or exercise. On the days that I don’t run, I will try to meditate right after lunch. I will cut my meditation time down to 20 minutes on exercise days, and 25 minutes on non-exercise days.
I’ll provide an update on this when I post my thoughts on my next 10-day challenge in two weeks. Don’t forget: the next challenge will be posted tomorrow! I hope you will join me!